tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post985705507364390947..comments2024-03-27T05:50:16.659+00:00Comments on We Mixed Our Drinks: Relationship advice from Cheers magazineHannah Mudgehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06367085612049349757noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-60146134470687331312019-10-20T10:26:10.977+01:002019-10-20T10:26:10.977+01:00Am Karen Romano from USA. After being in relations...Am Karen Romano from USA. After being in relationship for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the Great Matatan Spell, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4 pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful Great Matatan Spell who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email ( matatanspell@yahoo.com CALL/WHATS-APP:+233 20 926 0493 ) <br />Karen Romanohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12066685700731117088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-55081364611351695812014-05-01T05:43:41.104+01:002014-05-01T05:43:41.104+01:00I like your articles guys keep it up.
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The miracle has been done. Hat’s off. Well done, as we know that “hard work always pays off”, after a long struggle with sincere effort it’s done.<br />-----------------------------<br />vernon<br /><a href="http://www.plrprivatelabelrights.com/plr-ebooks/dating-ebooks" rel="nofollow">Ebooks for Dating</a>mgibs17https://www.blogger.com/profile/07407326263865572668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-81646175746486825252010-11-09T05:40:33.350+00:002010-11-09T05:40:33.350+00:00Thank you so much for this wealth of information,n...Thank you so much for this wealth of information,nice advice!<br /><br /><a href="http://luvessentials.com/pheromones_work.html" title="do pheromones work<br />" rel="nofollow">do pheromones work<br /></a>cletseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01130062563845025105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-37927599125558078402010-08-24T22:36:49.384+01:002010-08-24T22:36:49.384+01:00I think I agree with one thing that the editor sai...I think I agree with one thing that the editor said, that the home and family is important.<br /><br />I find it most strange that is a continuing theme in feminists debates that men are often painted as buffoons incapable of controlling their actions and should not be held responsible for their own lives. An outsider would think that men are the ones looking for equality. <br /><br />What angers me most is the idea that a man, who enjoys alcohol too much would leave the pub if there was a meal or whatever. An alcoholic cares only about themselves.Pamela Myershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16506179217573947225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-61194630023308949242010-08-10T16:29:41.642+01:002010-08-10T16:29:41.642+01:00Sent to the editor earlier today:
Dear sir,
It i...Sent to the editor earlier today:<br /><br />Dear sir,<br /><br />It is unclear to me why, upon reading your article, and assuming that the suggestions as to the nature of men implicit in it are correct[1], any woman would choose to link her fate to such a debased creature.<br /><br />On the basis of reality-based observation therefore, which tends to indicate that quite a few women in fact enjoy the company of men and even seek it deliberately, I can only conclude that you, sir, are not only grievously wrong but also pathetically deluded.<br /><br />Tough, but true.<br /><br />M<br /><br />[1] Men are superficial creatures who will neglect a woman who is insufficiently conventionally attractive, are unable to take responsibility of home life (they need a woman to handle that from them), are sexually out of control and incapable of sustaining fidelity, are primarily focused on crude physical things such as food, are insecure and resentful of competing “leadership” etc.Marina Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14449789093721258516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-47272507202540364202010-07-25T19:30:53.699+01:002010-07-25T19:30:53.699+01:00I totally agree with you. Just recently I've h...I totally agree with you. Just recently I've heard a few people using outdated and restrictive stereotypes about men's and women's personalities/emotions/desires to try to 'solve' relationship problems and that's SO not what's needed. Like you say, respect and understanding doesn't come from all that. Talking about cooking and letting the man be in charge without fail achieves nothing and is never going to address relationship issues.Hannah Mudgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06367085612049349757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-21580170866014429992010-07-23T11:02:11.408+01:002010-07-23T11:02:11.408+01:00If this magazine is receiving funding from any sou...If this magazine is receiving funding from any sources then they need to be complained to. If there are companies or public bodies or trust funds supporting this tripe then they should be bombarded with complaints and try to get them to withdraw their funding.<br /><br />It's always possible that there are enough loonies behind this cause that they've paid for it themselves though. How awful.<br /><br />And I don't agree that it's just the one way nature of the advice that makes it offensive. It's the shallow, surface nature of the advice that is most offensive to me. How will we ever foster respect and understanding between the genders if we think that maintaining a relationship is all about playing some weird game of dressing up and cooking... what about proper engagement where you learn to fully see each other's humanity, understand each other's needs and hopes and be there to support each other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-34841076154199976232010-07-17T12:30:17.811+01:002010-07-17T12:30:17.811+01:00Thank you, Hannah! We will be sure to credit and ...Thank you, Hannah! We will be sure to credit and to let you know when we are going to feature it. :)<br /><br />In the mean time...keep up the great posts!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-40420703228514596012010-07-17T10:25:51.627+01:002010-07-17T10:25:51.627+01:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-2938298409882417672010-07-17T10:06:38.886+01:002010-07-17T10:06:38.886+01:00Guy - yes the one-way nature of the advice is one ...Guy - yes the one-way nature of the advice is one of the most offensive things about it. The editor says they plan to write a feature about 'what women want' so I can only hope this will be written by a woman, not by him pretending he knows what's best for women. I agree with you re: earnings and making an effort with your appearance though - like you say, it applies to both men and women.<br /><br />Anpang & Ruth - it definitely seems like there's some sort of personal bitterness woven in. Or possibly a conservative religious mindset. Neither of which should be making it into the pages of a local community mag!<br /><br />Glad to hear it Jonathan! Not that there's anything wrong with women who love cooking or stay at home, but as you point out not everyone is bothered by this sort of thing. My husband loves cooking too and I'm not about to stop him doing it!<br /><br />RedHead - Yes, that's quite worrying because it seems like it's encouraging women to stay at home no matter what their financial situation is and in this day and age that's not the most realistic line to take, never mind the fact it totally ignores any desire we might have to you know, do something outside childcare.<br /><br />Emma G - I agree, I think a lot of women's magazines give the same sort of advice dressed up in a different way. Certainly when it comes to the whole 'making him feel like he's in charge/changing what you wear to impress him/not earning more than him' thing. Which is probably why I don't read women's magazines.<br /><br />Hannah - Yep go ahead! I had a quick peek at the blog yesterday and am excited to see what you're going to do with it :)Hannah Mudgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06367085612049349757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-50324871950135123302010-07-17T03:56:06.449+01:002010-07-17T03:56:06.449+01:00This post and the points you make in it are good a...This post and the points you make in it are good and necessary; would you mind if my friend and I were to feature it/link it on a new feminist blog/group we're setting up? Things like this slip under the radar all too easily, so on behalf of us both I can safely say we're glad you have made a post about it...<br /><br />Other Hannah from facebook/livejournal (flaaa_blah)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-35991150592336190492010-07-16T20:00:01.742+01:002010-07-16T20:00:01.742+01:00That letter is just horrifying.
As for the advice...That letter is just horrifying. <br />As for the advice, I think that sadly most women's magazines tend to give guidance leaning a bit too much in that direction.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-327544553976967122.post-60571192717182151042010-07-16T12:37:13.351+01:002010-07-16T12:37:13.351+01:00'Distributed in Barking'. Barking Mad-vill...'Distributed in Barking'. Barking Mad-ville run by a misogynistic bunch of backward women-haters from prehistoric times. I particularly liked 'your family is your priority, not your job - whether it pays the bills or not'.The Social Mediatrixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15697263069260335700noreply@blogger.com